The stance that brings me the most joy in life is that of joining others in the innocence. Every person I encounter I see in total innocence. I see them through Christ's eyes, and they are beautiful, every single one. Every single person started in innocence, and that is the way I want to view them and myself. It brings me great peace and joy. I see love stories all around me. I am living in eternity, in love, purity and innocence. I am already home. I do not believe in death. I believe in eternal life unfolding at each moment, and I trust what is arising in front of me to be "for my highest good" as Byron Katie puts it so eloquently.
Life is beautiful. I see it all through the eyes of a child. I do not do the Byron Katie "turn arounds" so much as I simply live in the energy of innocence and new life in Christ. That is the sweet spot in which I reside.
I view all "bad news" in this same light. I see all the players as small children, innocent and I hold this for them in their confusion. This is the way I pray, and this is the way I play......in innocence.